ARE MEN BEING CHEATED?

OK so I have gone over some of the things people do to women that are single but I have left out half the population by not telling about men. I do not have first hand knowledge since as you might have guessed I'm not a man but I do have Friends that seem to get the short end of the stick. For example, if a man is looking to get married he is desperate no matter what but a girl is expected to want to get married. Another one is if a guy talks about wanting kids, loves his momma, has already planned out a future wedding fantasy, he is considered crazy but this is supposed to be normal for a woman? Normal how? I have not ever fantasized about spending thousands of dollars so I can wear a fancy dress. I have however fantasied about spending thousands of dollars to get a classic muscle car. I know I am guilty of this judgement as well because if a guy says he is looking for marriage and its a first date then I leave smoke trails getting to the door. I think that if we all have perspective about what is OK to say to someone that you don't know well then things will be fine.

Here are some dating tips from a speed dating queen
1. Don't mention marriage on a first date unless asked if
a. are you married? um please don't date if you are married
b. Have you ever been married? This is basically just an icebreaker. Do not go into all the gory details of the divorce or the ex

2. Do not get into heavy discussions on a first date. That can wait until you actually know if you ever want to see this person again. Think of it like this. If you would not walk up to a complete stranger in the supermarket and say what you are about to say DO NOT SAY IT TO YOUR DATE. Your date is a complete stranger duh!

3. Be happy with yourself. A spouse, partner, boyfriend, girlfriend or even a booty call will not make you happy. They can add joy to your world but you have to love yourself. Have hobbies, exercise, a job you love, or even a job that one day you want to do. If you are not happy, you really do send out desperate vibes that the other person can pick up on.

4. Don't take it personal if you don't click. That is what dating is about. Having fun but seeing if you want to spend another day with that person. IF not they have not wronged you in anyway. Would you really want someone to be with you out of Pity? I think not.

So the moral is don't judge men that act like woman are supposed to. (I will try not to as well.) Men should be able to want a family without people saying they are whipped, weird, desperate, or anything else. Follow dating rules for a fun time and remember that it is just a date. Not the end of the world. Even if its a bad date eventually it will be funny and a great icebreaker for future dates.

SO BE PROUD, BE LOUD, AND SAY TABLE FOR ONE!!!